Wednesday, July 30, 2008

Happy: To Be or Not to Be

Well, something inspires me to write all the time. This time it was a friend of mine (Who is more like a sister... Well i still don't understand why all girls get pushed to being my sister [Nan next topic addu]). Well, its about leaving for others; doing things for others and deriving joy off that (Well Derivation... Its a module that i am handling this time. And its Screwed for now ;)... Sorry for deviating from the topic). (Where were we, quickly runs through the prev sentence) Oh yeah! I am trying get a verdict (or was it consensus) of the few people who view my blog (I still don't know how many do, would be nice to see a 1:1 comment ratio).

Wasted a paragraph :(. Well ya, how much happiness can you draw from making other happy. I know that it is the best form of happiness (And i have felt it as well). What I have learned is to love each day being aware of the fact that each day is going to be different and there is no use of thinking of a tomorrow that may never come by. Sigh!! (The stupid Derivation Code, that's what i can think of in my head.. One type of happiness ;) ). The other thing I can think off is being with someone who is close to you, someone who gives the right advices.. That way missed my dad for the 3months that i didn't tell him about my accident. Those where the lows, there was a lesson learnt no wonder. The negative vibes turned to positive ones as soon as i spoke.

I have been lucky to have a Dad like him. As sensitive as him, i can only dream! He gave me the best advice that anyone could. What he told me was "Live like there is no tomorrow", well i didn't take that advice too seriously but i wish i did. Now i guess i am getting there. Just hope i wont do that thing again (The thing that happened on 30Th Dec 07). Well, that was just one more example of what i did after that!! Common mam (Slang in Kannada to mean Da.. Man.. Buddy.. Dude etc) you got the blog didn't you ;).

For all you guys insecure on things 2 advices from someone who knows a bit (A bit too much). (i) People who move out are irreplaceable, you will always miss them. But this should not mean you will stop living (Being alive, Being VIVO). Time is the biggest healer, music just helps (ii) Its always good to be safe with your spending, well some of the best things in life are free of cost.. That passing smile, A walk in the Park, Music (With min investment on an ipod), Feel the rain, Looking at a sunrise/sunset and well if you are in NY DT taking a trip to "Statin Island" On the ferry.. That is free too ;)

Our first and last love is.. self-love

Signing off

Cheers
Sri

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

Yep I agree - self-love is the first and last love. You cannot hold onto any other form of love for a life time. Some time or the other you need to let it go. Letting it go is the best thing you can do to make them happy. But we need to love ourselves before we let it go. Normally we forget to love ourselves when we try to make others happy. Once you start loving yourself, the whole world changes. Or rather you look at it from a different angle. So like your dad said "Live like there is no tommorow".

Unknown said...

Namastey Ji

I couldn't stop myself writing ;)
You seem to propose mixed views through this blog...
The best love is to just live... not for urself not for others...
The free smile that u share with others can get them to smile and that is priceless.
You can never tame your life. "Man proposes God disposes". So it will always be best to live for the day but, it is never wrong to plan for future...
Faith in that omni present power always gives you strength to live each day with happiness.
Don't try categorizing people.. just know them for what they are. There is always to learn something from each of them.
It is best to create an aura around you which cannot be pierced and then you can live each day as you have never lived it before...
You know so much Sriram.. you don't need advices.. but yes there would be plp like me who share a different thought to things coz of our different backgrounds... but it does not mean that you have to take them up.
tk cr
best regards

Shriram said...

Slup!! Well i guess i was eating all this while. Apoligies for late replies. (Well i cant be insterested in things for a long time.. Hopefully i would be good after marriage.. Hope). Anonymous!! That was a great comment. I would agree to whatever is said. Thanks (Would be great if i can inspire to have a blog too, If you dont have one already). Neha Not sure if you know how confused about things. There is a purpose of living you need to live for something or Leave. Most things in life can be controlled. Emotions, Talking.. The only you cant control is FATE! No one categorizes people its just the preception of people! Perception of indivuals. Its not the background.. Its just perception of what you think and what I do. Simple. Well (I could have put this as a blog)